Dating your Girl

Sex before marriage is one of the biggest problems in every country. It is also called “Free sex”. A lot of arguments appear from many people. Although they judge that having sex before marriage is such a bad thing, they can not deny that many people have done this. It is also supported by many things for example the place, the contraception and no government action to heal this social problem. We can find easily the place where we can have a sex. We can buy the contraception without any requirements. The most important thing is one of the government incomes come from sex which is sold. Nowadays, it is usual so that is way, having sex before marriage is okay.
Some people said that having sex before marriage is an unusual thing. In fact, the result of Jawa Pos questionnaire at Deteksi Page shows that 63% of teenage couples had done this and the main reason is love. Sex can be one of the way people express their love. It does not matter whether they have got married or no, they still can do that.
In addition, they know about the risk when they decide to have sex before marriage. Other people can not change their mind, it is their privacy. Even everyone will not know what they had done if they keep it a secret.

In biology, all things which live even animals had done this. Honestly, we need sex in our life, we call it human nature and it does not change the meaning if we had done this earlier. Sex is categorized as a basic human needed. However, it is just the same so we do not need to wait until we got married.
Furthermore, human have high curiosity about anything including having sex so by doing that early, we would know a thing which everyone has not known before. We have a feeling that can make us anxious and when that feeling comes, anything can happen to us.
Additionally, one of the advantages of having sex is helping us out of stress. Having sex can make human easy to relax. It is written on a book which is titled “100 ways to make us relax”. It also can cure insomnia syndrome. If we have not got married, we can do that because of healthy reason.

Moreover, being married person is not as easy as like what we think. Sometimes, we get so many problems with our couple. It will be okay if we can solve it but if it is not. Many people can get the effect especially children. One of the purposes of getting marriage is having sex with the one whom we love. If having sex before marriage is okay, we can do that without taking a lot of risks. That will be the best way to avoid some family problems which can happened after we got married. We must not think about how we provide the best life for our family and how we keep an enormous relationship between us with our couple after we declare our promise in front of God. We should not do all of that things if we can get everything before we got married.

Based on that reasons, we can conclude that having sex before marriage is ok. Despite many advantages, many people still argue because they think that it is sin. Actually, it is an abstract thing and people who think logical will not believe that. We have to think rational and of course this is our problem with God so everyone can not know that. One thing that makes us afraid especially for Moslems is an Islamic rule which tells that someone who has sex before marriage must die. Many people must throw the stones until we die but it never happened in some countries including Indonesia. Another problem which can caused HIV/AIDS is having sex. That is true but even though sex can cause HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) / AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome), we can not judge having sex before married can cause it. It depends on our couple not the action. Ultimately, sex before marriage is ok as far as we enjoy it and know the consequences.